Danielle contributed the following to a Huffington Post article about questions you should be able to answer about your partner before you get married:

“6. If you could change one personality characteristic or tick about yourself, what would it be and why?

“Being able to answer this question speaks a great deal about how vulnerable you and your partner are able to be with one another. If either of you is unable to answer this question, asking this could create further discussion about personal growth. If your partner says they wish they could be more assertive in work meetings, you can empathize with their situation and possibly offer advice.” ― Danielle Kepler, a therapist in Chicago

Read the entire article here.